Today is my oldest child’s birthday. Adult child. I have three adult children now and they all grew up too fast.
This one has had an interesting year. He came out as a transgender during the summer- at least with me. Some others may have already known.
We went out to dinner tonight and had a lovely time.
I probably should begin with the morning, but I’ve done too much today (enjoyed doing it all!) and am thinking backwards.
She showed up when she got off work. She works nights right now. I fixed us breakfast and then she went in one of my spare bedrooms to sleep.
We had planned to go see a movie, but she was so tired . . . it wasn’t my kind of movie anyway, so I was fine missing it. I do hope she goes to see it before it leaves the theater.
My mind is a grasshopper tonight . . . I intended to go from breakfast to what I did after breakfast. I took her car to be inspected. I know from working myself that little chores like that eat up a big part of your day when you have to do it. Everything on the car passed inspection, and it didn’t take too long. Besides, I needed to go out and get some birthday candles anyway. I’d gotten the cake mix a couple days ago.
I have made cakes from “scratch”, but I doubt I ever will again. Last year I was too sick to bake a cake. She showed up with one she had baked, and I was so glad! Birthday cakes matter to me.
But this year after getting the car inspected, and stopping for the candles, I came home and baked a cake. I was so grateful to be well enough to do that.
She got up mid afternoon and we dressed up a little and went out to dinner. It was fun. The music was lovely; the waitress attentive. The food was good.
We came home for dessert and cut the cake. She opened her presents and card and was happy with what she got.
I bought her a mixer and gave her a girly card.
I talked with one of her friends yesterday and found out not all parents are supportive when their children “come out”. Why not? That is still your child. I will support my children until my last breath.
So it was a great day, if eventually tiring.
It had gotten dark by the time we left the restaurant. I tried to help drive . . . but I can’t see well at night and really don’t drive at night. I was reminded that she can see well and was doing fine.
Indeed she was. I thank God for another year with her.
She’s gone out with friends now, but I doubt they have as much fun as we did, ha, ha.