If YOU choose to listen to your friends instead of your mother and things go to hell in a hand basket, you have no right to then blame your mother for any of your problems.
People don’t understand that friends will use you up, use your resources up, convince you that they truly care about you and get you to cushion their way of life while you neglect family members (mother) who truly does love you and has sacrificed repeatedly for you.
Do not DARE to return to your family (mother) and blame her for the fix your friends got you into. That makes no sense and she will no longer tolerate being your scapegoat.
Did I write this to YOU? If the shoe fits, WEAR IT.